An early femin-nazi once said something to the affect of "Women must not be allowed to be stay at home wives, because if given the choice, to many will do so." That's a paraphrase... but I very much need to find the real thing and who said it. Vox used it once, but believe it or not, I don't have time to look. If anyone knows off the top of her head, Sarah, please help. Thanks y'all.